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Listen With Your Eyes

Learning to Listen ... The secret to being heard

Listening is the secret to being heard.
Active listening involves interupting the speaker to 
  • Never challenge
  • Always repeat
  • Always show enthusiasm... 

Here's an example.

My dog got out and ran accross the road today and nearly died. We were so scared and there were cars everywhere. Truly, we thought we'd lost her. That's the third time it's happened. 

Ok, for me, there are so many moments in this dialogue to intervene and demonstrate listing. 
 "...nearly died" would be the first, "oh, no you mean it nearly got hit by a car?" It shows you are listening and empathetic. Then, "We were so scared" - I'd interject with "how awful, ...

This is a trivial example but there are so many conversations that we allow to slip right through the system and we automatically stop listening.

This article on conscious conversations is great, although the listening aspect isn't emphasised it does talk about radio active points when we react and ultimately stop listening/communicating.

 Enjoy the article here.

Are you listening?



Listening Skills

Close your eyes and focus on what you can hear without distraction of visual input. Try to identify the location of individual sounds in the background. Notice the variety, texture, and complexity of sounds. Then, cup your hands around your ears and use them to localize sounds (just as animals with large ears alter the shape and direction of their ears to locate sounds). Try cupping both hands around one ear and using your hands to focus the sounds. Next, move around in your environment and use solid objects as sound conductors (e.g., when you pass a big tree, put your head down next to it and notice what you can hear).
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  • E-Learning
    • 1. EMOTIONAL CLEARING >
      • Week One Back on Track
      • What motivates you?
      • Emotional Shower
      • Emotions and Letting Go
      • Helicopter Mindset
      • Discard Form
      • Beyond Anger
      • Personal Balance
      • All Pain is a Drain
      • Evolveyabastard
      • Resilience
    • 2. CELLULAR HEALTH >
      • Red Flags
      • Beyond Doubt
      • Burst
      • Salute to the Sun
      • Corpse Pose
      • Breathe
      • Your Constitution
      • Be in Your Element
      • DIET
      • Sleep
      • Total Recall
      • Corruption
      • Life Balance
    • 3. ENVIRONMENT (Inner and Outer) >
      • Universal Laws of Nature
      • Nature's Bible
      • Love is a Lifestyle
      • Relationship
      • Nature and Environment
      • Nature's Solutions
      • Abundance
      • Declutter
      • WALKATATION
      • Nature Meditation
    • 4. VALUES - SELF RESPECT >
      • Focus
      • Values another way
      • Brand You
      • Brand Words and Linking
      • K. Do, Dump, Delegate
      • Relationships
      • PDP PROGRAM
      • P. Wise Decision Making
    • 5. VISION, INSPIRATION, PURPOSE >
      • NEW VISION
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      • Vision Journal
      • On Stage - Vision
      • Penetration
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      • Manifestation Process
      • INTRO
      • Daily Vision
      • Dream Board
      • Future Mapping
      • R. Future You
      • INSPIRATION
      • Your PURPOSE
      • Leadership - LCM
      • GOAL SMART
      • BIG GOALS - HUGE VISION - SMALL STEPS
      • Diligence
      • Energy
      • TEAM WORK
      • PURPOSE
    • 6. SELF TALK >
      • The Mirror Of Truth
      • Your Perfect Day
      • Lucky FKR - Decisions
      • Gratitude
      • Living Real
      • Presence
      • Diversity
      • The Power of Belief
      • Authenticity
      • RITUALS
      • Mind
      • The Power of Observation
      • Magic Wand
      • Active Listening
      • Confidence - Calm - Serenity
      • Changing Others
      • Review and Improve Yourself - Discard
      • Double Your Income
      • Here's to the Chase
      • REPEAT VIP SCORE
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