Hate is an awful word. It's an awful idea. Hate... to hate something is to dislike it extremely.
It is better to say "I am extremely unthankful" rather than hate. But they are one in the same.
Extreme unthankfulness is exhausting. It is hate. The devils friend is hate and unthankfulness.
If you hate something, it is a very important time to see that this can be changed before it causes damage to both you and your relationship with the object of your hate.
If you hate something, you increase its power. Terrorists for example kill people to make you hate them, but in doing so, gain your attention and increase their power. It was only through the act of violence in the World Trade Centre that the Isis, gained global recognition and the more hate they generated, the more people they recruited. It was an advertising stunt that cost 000's of lives.
Try to hold your power by being thankful. Gratitude disempowers those who would take your energy. If your friend makes you angry or unthankful for them, then you owe it to you to use any process available not to give your power away.
This is moving beyond ego. Beyond reaction. Until you move beyond reaction you are emotionally a prisoner of the marketing and surface of life. You cannot lead or love on the surface. So it is the first step.
It is better to say "I am extremely unthankful" rather than hate. But they are one in the same.
Extreme unthankfulness is exhausting. It is hate. The devils friend is hate and unthankfulness.
If you hate something, it is a very important time to see that this can be changed before it causes damage to both you and your relationship with the object of your hate.
If you hate something, you increase its power. Terrorists for example kill people to make you hate them, but in doing so, gain your attention and increase their power. It was only through the act of violence in the World Trade Centre that the Isis, gained global recognition and the more hate they generated, the more people they recruited. It was an advertising stunt that cost 000's of lives.
Try to hold your power by being thankful. Gratitude disempowers those who would take your energy. If your friend makes you angry or unthankful for them, then you owe it to you to use any process available not to give your power away.
This is moving beyond ego. Beyond reaction. Until you move beyond reaction you are emotionally a prisoner of the marketing and surface of life. You cannot lead or love on the surface. So it is the first step.
