YOUR VIP SCORE
If I asked you to score yourself on a 1 – 10 against each of the 7 areas of life (see diagram ) (where 10 is blissfully happy and content and 1 is suicidally depressed) how would this look? (form below to send to me)
So your ‘VIP’ score would be the total of all the seven individual scores?
If I asked you to score yourself on a 1 – 10 against each of the 7 areas of life (see diagram ) (where 10 is blissfully happy and content and 1 is suicidally depressed) how would this look? (form below to send to me)
So your ‘VIP’ score would be the total of all the seven individual scores?
The normal reaction for people in a funk (low scores below 5 in any area of life) is to focus solely on one or two of these areas of life. For example, if you are down in career, you might turn to a coach. Down in health, you might end up at a gym or personal trainer. Mentally down you might start meditating, and so on.
The problem with this is that as one aspect grows, another shrinks. You’re unfulfilled at work so you decide to drive harder but as a result, your family and love-life suffers. Or if your finances are struggling you might start worrying about money and ignore your health. Your overall score of [VIP score] doesn't change, it simply changes shape. Old problems may go away, new ones appear.
The problem with this is that as one aspect grows, another shrinks. You’re unfulfilled at work so you decide to drive harder but as a result, your family and love-life suffers. Or if your finances are struggling you might start worrying about money and ignore your health. Your overall score of [VIP score] doesn't change, it simply changes shape. Old problems may go away, new ones appear.
We are in a constant state of Transition. This can erode our confidence, strength and intelligence. It can also mess with our home life, wellness and mental health. Some healthy reflection is always good:
Growth rings of a tree explain why your VIP score keeps fluctuating. The closer you approximate your feelings to your 10/10 the higher your expectations of yourself and life become. Hence, growth is intended to keep you unhappy. It keeps you wanting. Nobody wakes up wanting less from life. More love, more happiness, more wealth, more calm, more friends, more fun, more done in less time. Nobody wants less of the good things in life and therefore, what is possible is always growing, This is called "THE EGO." and it is why, in Eastern teachings they try to diminish the EGO as bad. The EGO is as key to happiness as is the emptiness of non ego. Just we need to know when to use them both. We can master them both so we have a big healthy ego that believes in our potential happiness, future satisfaction and growing love, and a big healthy non ego that believes in our satisfaction, love and happiness right now. We can have both acting simultaneously as the inner and the outer. There will always be expectations of better and more on the outside (emotions and thoughts) and there can always be satisfaction and love on the inside right now. This is Inner-wealth and Outer Wealth acting at once. A true gift of the Innerwealth Training and Life Coaching programmes in Mental Strength.
DEFINING EACH AREA OF LIFE (NOTE WE'VE ADDED ONE)
WHY IT'S A GREAT VALUE TO KNOW YOUR VIP SCORE
SOME VIDEOS TO EXPLAIN VIP
"You need a vision. It's as natural as the air you breathe. With a good vision of the future your mind and heart work as one. Real Spirit, real engagement, real leadership comes when your heart is fully in it, your emotions are engaged in it and you feel a sense of purpose in whatever you do. It's not about the work, it's about how you approach it and what you have in the tank to put into it.”
